Often times when you work hard and sacrifice all you can in search of success and greatness, life just smiles from ear to ear and say’s “I could care less how many hours you trained, practiced or studied, today I aint giving you what you want or think you deserve”
So what do you do when this happens? Nobody’s denying that it may be unfair and that it definitely SUCKS!!
Are you going to quit? Are you going to say life’s unfair and the world is against you?
Or are you going to FIGHT?
Are you going to say “Yeah this does SUCK, but I’ve still got a choice”
You can lay down and let life reverse over you, kick dust, gravel and smoke in your face, push you back down as you get back up and laugh at you as it’s doing it.
Or you can take that choice and accept that life can be cruel, but your choice to move forward instead of lying down will make the pain of defeat, rejection, embarrassment, heartbreak or failure far easier to move beyond.
Moving forward, even if it’s a hobble, limp or crawl is going to beat standing still 11 days out of 10.
AND YOU KNOW WHY?
Life also doesn’t GIVE A FUCK if you lay down and doubt yourself, fill yourself with self pity and give in to the defeat that it threw you. In fact life LOVES THAT SHIT!! Life lives and breathes for that shit because life’s won when you give up, and everyone be it life, men, women, children or animals love winning.
Winning’s infectious and the more you win the more you want it. So get competitive, get fired up and fight back because just like we all love winning, we all hate losing.
And if you let life see that you can FIGHT BACK and become a winner again, well life might get used to losing and start throwing less obstacles, hurdles, curve balls and shit your way.
When you lose or fail you have 2 choices:
2. Walk through door number 2 and absorb the pain associated with that loss or failure and add it to your CHARACTER BUILDING BANK. Absorb those feelings but DON’T DWELL on them, because failure brings with it the opportunity to grow and develop. Think of failure like photography in that you need negatives to develop.
Instead of saying “I GIVE IN“, imagine how much greater you’ll feel when you trust the process, get back to the hustle and grind and eventually succeed after tasting huge defeat, loss and failure.
Winning feels amazing even when the road to success was an easy one. But when you chase your dreams and the road to that success is filled with pot holes, twists, turns and wipe outs along the way, well not only will victory taste sweeter, your CHARACTER BUILDING BANK will be overflowing.
YOU ALWAYS HAVE A CHOICE!! And the choice you make to give in or GET UP will either imprison you or SET YOU FREE.
Watch this video to see how a man gets crippled by life, absorbs and feels the pain but has the courage to GET UP and move forward no matter what:
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