Hey guys, Dan Thomas from Image Doctor and Improvemant.com and watch the video above or read the article below to learn some GIFT IDEAS FOR GIRLFRIENDS AND WIVES.
This is my next instalment in the video mini series of gifts for girlfriends and wives. You can find the previous gift idea movie suggestion in the description field below.
And just a reminder that guys need to look at any special occasion as an opportunity to demonstrate how much you love your partner and show her how special she is to you.
So today’s gift idea for girlfriends and wives is to use the money you would have spent on a present and take your wife or girlfriend clothes shopping.
I will make the point that this gift idea is more on the expensive side but you could even just offer to take her to buy a pair of shoes or one item of clothing as opposed to a whole new wardrobe if your funds are limited because just the thought alone will be greatly appreciated.
Here are 5 reasons why your girlfriend or wife will love this idea.
Reason number one is that she will appreciate the unselfish nature of this present as most women realise clothes shopping is not high on a mans list of enjoyable activities. So by giving up your time and effort to do something you don’t love just because you know she does is a nice gesture and sign of your care and devotion to making her feel special and loved.
Reason number two is that women like to make an effort to look nice for their partner and be seen as a lady that their man is proud to be seen with and who he feels lucky to be with.
This is particularly the case if she feels beautiful and attractive in your presence so she will definitely appreciate having you there to offer your opinion on how she looks in the different outfits she tries on. Your first hand opinion will give her the confidence and reassurance to know that she looks beautiful because you played a part in creating that beauty.
Reason number three is that women just want to spend time with the person they love!! When you take your lady shopping, she won’t approach the trip in the same rushed, logical way that men do in which the objective and mission is to get what you need and get out of the centre as fast as possible.
Whilst this is not what men want to hear, women approach retail shopping in a very relaxed manner with no strict process or procedure in mind. They love every minute of shopping in the same way us men savour our time working on car engines, playing and watching sports, hanging out in the man cave or reading the Sunday papers back to back.
And the fact your partner would love shopping even when alone means that sharing this experience with you will be even more enjoyable as women love sharing with their partners the aspects of their lives that they really care about and enjoy.
So between travelling time, shopping and having lunch, she will have plenty of quality time with you so suck it up, be a gentleman and put on a brave face and create an enjoyable experience for your loved one in which she feels you’ve enjoyed sharing in an activity that makes her happy, as opposed to performing a tedious chore where you are clock watching from the time you leave the house with her.
Reason number four is that most women love fashion, clothes and shopping, so the fact you’re willing to take an interest in one of her passions will demonstrate your level of consideration towards her and the relationship you share together.
As a result, your partner will be made to feel loved and special and your one day of sacrifice will more than pay itself back in the health benefits of your relationship.
And reason number five is that this present will actually save you time and frustration in the future. Most guys get showered, dressed and ready in 15 minutes whilst their partner is trying on 45 different outfits and creating world war 3 as you offer an opinion on each of them.
So if you give up your time and energy for one day, next time she says “I don’t know what to wear” or “I have nothing to wear”, you can then tell her to wear the outfits that you helped her pick out that day.
In this case it’s not your fault if she doesn’t like those outfits because you made the time and effort to be there on the day to offer your opinion on the clothes she chose and your opinion of whether you liked them or not.
DON’T BE FOOLED BY HER LAUGHTER!! IN HER HEAD SHE IS LIKE “HA HA HA HA I’M NOT HAVING SEX WITH THIS PRICK FOR AT LEAST A WEEK NOW, MORE LIKELY TWO”!!
IF OLD MATE ABOVE CAN PUT IN AN OSCAR WORTHY PERFORMANCE THEN SO CAN YOU!!
So keep this gift idea in mind next time you have a special occasion to celebrate as I’m confident most women will enjoy this experience and really appreciate the thought and consideration you have given them and your relationship.
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